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ABOUT
WHAT DOES SELF-WORTH HAVE TO DO WITH BEING A BLACK SHEEP?
AS A BLACK SHEEP, YOU WEREN'T GIVEN A LIFE OF SAFETY AND SUPPORT. YOU HAD TO PAVE YOUR OWN WAY THROUGH LIFE. YOU HAD TO FIGHT FOR EVERYTHING YOU HAVE.
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YOU WERE RAISED TO OBEY, TO PLAY SMALL, TO PUT YOUR NEEDS ASIDE FOR THE WANTS OF OTHERS.
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THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU TAKE CREDIT FOR YOUR SUCCESS BUT LEAVE YOU TO HANDLE EVERY OBSTACLE ON YOUR OWN.
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YOUR EXPERIENCE AS A BLACK SHEEP TEACHES YOU TO SACRIFICE YOURSELF INSTEAD OF VALUE YOURSELF.
THESE PATTERNS OF PEOPLE-PLEASING, SELF-SACRIFICE, PLAYING SMALL, AND LIVING IN FEAR DON'T JUST DISAPPEAR. THEY MUST BE CONSCIOUSLY UNLEARNED.
YOU'RE USED TO DOING THE HARD WORK.
BUT ARE YOU USED TO FEELING JOY, EASE, AND REST?
YOU'RE NOT NEW TO BREAKING CYCLES. SO LET'S TAKE THE WORK FURTHER - LET'S EXPAND YOUR COMFORT ZONE TO INCLUDE BLISS. FREEDOM. AUTHENTICITY. AGENCY.
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LET'S SIT DOWN AND CREATE A PLAN TOGETHER SO YOU CAN FINALLY STOP HIDING AND START LIVING.
MEET ROSHNI & learn how your black sheep journey plays a crucial role in your sense of self-worth
Mindset
Taking ownership of your mindset puts you in the position to create change.
your daily thoughts
impact your confidence more than you think
BLACK SHEEP OFTEN STRUGGLE WITH THINKING THINGS ARE ALL-OR-NOTHING.
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YOU MAY STOP GIVING YOURSELF CREDIT FOR YOUR PROGRESS AS SOON AS YOU MAKE A SINGLE MISTAKE, OR WRITE OFF A POTENTIAL PARTNER AT THE FIRST SIGHT OF AN IMPERFECTION.
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BUT NO ONE IS PERFECT, AND IT'S RELENTLESS WHEN YOU ARE YOUR OWN WORST CRITIC.
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IF YOU'RE DEALING WITH A CRITICAL AND JUDGMENTAL MIND, THIS FREE WORKBOOK IS JUST FOR YOU.
CATEGORIZING PEOPLE, OPPORTUNITIES, HABITS, DECISIONS, AND RELATIONSHIPS INTO “GOOD” OR “BAD” CATEGORIES KEEPS YOU DEEPLY ISOLATED.
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BINARY THINKING IS ALWAYS GOING TO KEEP YOU ROOTED IN SHAME.
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THE MORE YOU ALLOW YOUR PERSONAL EXPERIENCE TO BE NUANCED, THE MORE YOU CREATE ROOM TO FORGIVE AND ACCEPT EVERY PART OF YOU AS WORTHY.
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THIS ALIGNS YOU WITH YOUR AUTHENTICITY AND MAGNETIZES YOU TO THE PEOPLE AND OPPORTUNITIES THAT YOU’VE BEEN DREAMING OF.
DOWNLOAD THE FREE WORKBOOK TO LEARN HOW TO RECOGNIZE & CHANGE YOUR ALL-OR-NOTHING THOUGHT PROCESS
LEARN MORE ABOUT ALL-OR-NOTHING THINKING IN THIS PODCAST EPISODE
"self-worth is like a magnet. Whether you're conscious of it or not, you are always attracting people, opportunities, and experiences that reflect your perceived sense of self-worth."
ROSHNI, BLACK SHEEP EXPERIENCE
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taking action builds self-trust and self-respect. You deserve a fresh start.
SELF-WORTH COACHING ACTIVATION (online)
LET'S GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER BEFORE YOU BOOK A FULL COACHING SESSION!
LIVE TAROT READING
(ONLINE)
ONE QUESTION MEANS ONE CLEAR PATH FORWARD. SENT AS A VOICE RECORDING TO FIT YOUR BUSY LIFESTYLE.
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ONE-QUESTION TAROT READING (EMAIL)
YOU'LL FEEL SEEN, CONFIDENT, & MOTIVATED FROM THE DEDICATION ATTENTION IN THIS IN-DEPTH READING!
PODCAST
Becoming Enough:
EMPOWERING BLACK SHEEP TO REMEMBER THEIR WORTH
BECOMING ENOUGH IS A SELF-WORTH PODCAST DEDICATED TO HELPING YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR BLACK SHEEP EXPERIENCE. THE SHOW CHRONICLES THE JOURNEY OF RAISING YOUR SELF-WORTH THROUGH SOLO AND GROUP EPISODES.
THIS PODCAST IS FOR THOSE WHO IDENTIFY AS THE BLACK SHEEP WHO ARE WORKING ON KNOWING, BELIEVING, AND UPHOLDING THEIR WORTH.
ROSHNI AND THEIR GUESTS EXPLORE HOW THE ROOTS OF SELF-WORTH BEGIN IN CHILDHOOD AND INFORM YOUR DECISIONS AND ACTIONS THROUGHOUT ADULTHOOD.
SELF-WORTH IS LIBERATION. HEALING YOUR WORTHINESS WOUNDS IS POSSIBLE AND IT'S THE KEY TO YOUR NEW BEGINNING.
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LISTEN TO THIS PODCAST WHEN YOU'RE READY TO RECLAIM YOUR POWER.
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roshni's story & COACHING STYLE
I WAS A 22-YEAR-OLD POST-GRAD WHO FELT LOST, ALONE, AND ABANDONED. IT WAS IN THE SILENCE THAT I BEGAN TO QUESTION MYSELF.
AS AN ANXIOUS HIGH-ACHIEVER, I REALIZED THAT WITHOUT THE CONSTANT EXTERNAL VALIDATION OF ACADEMIC OVERACHIEVEMENT, I DIDN’T KNOW WHO I WAS. MY IDENTITY AND SELF-WORTH WERE BASED ON MY DESIRE TO BE PERFECT, FIT IN WITH MY PEER GROUP, AND IMPRESS THE AUTHORITY FIGURES AROUND ME.
I DIDN’T HAVE BOUNDARIES BECAUSE 1) I DIDN’T KNOW MYSELF ENOUGH TO KNOW WHAT I NEEDED, AND 2) I BELIEVED THAT PEOPLE WOULD ONLY LOVE ME IF I ACCOMODATED THEM AT THE EXPENSE OF MYSELF.
I DIDN’T KNOW HOW TO REST OR ENJOY MYSELF BECAUSE MY ENTIRE LIFE WAS SPENT IN SURVIVAL MODE, ON THE EDGE OF COMPLETE BURNOUT AND EXHAUSTION.
I DIDN’T KNOW HOW TO RECOGNIZE OR NAME MY EMOTIONS, LET ALONE COMMUNICATE AND ADVOCATE FOR THEM.
THE PEOPLE I LET IN MY LIFE, THE CHOICES I MADE, AND THE LONG LIST OF THINGS I NEVER LET MYSELF DO FOR FEAR OF FAILING OR "LOOKING STUPID" HAD ONE COMMON THREAD: LOW SELF-WORTH.
I DEDICATED MY TWENTIES TO BREAKING TOXIC HABITS AND LIBERATING MYSELF FROM THE SHACKLES OF UNWORTHINESS.
IT WAS YEARS INTO THIS HEALING JOURNEY THAT I FINALLY BEGAN TO CONNECT THE DOTS: MY LOW SELF-WORTH DIDN'T JUST SPRING UP ONE DAY...IT WAS THE RESULT OF MY BLACK SHEEP EXPERIENCE.
I AM NOT A GURU. I AM A PROFESSIONAL PROCESSOR.
AS A COACH, I AM NOT INTERESTED IN TELLING YOU EXACTLY WHAT TO DO. I'M NOT TRYING TO SQUEEZE YOU INTO A PRE-EXISTING FORMULA. I DON'T HAVE ONE METHOD YOU NEED TO FIT INTO OR ONE FOOLPROOF WAY FOR YOU TO LIVE YOUR LIFE.
TO DO SO WOULD BE DISINGENOUS - I AM NOT THE EXPERT ON YOUR LIFE. YOU ARE.
I TRUST THAT YOU KNOW WHAT'S RIGHT FOR YOU - I'M JUST HELPING YOU GET THERE.
WHAT I AMÂ HERE TO DO IS HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE YOUR EMOTIONS ARE COMING FROM AND RECOGNIZE PATTERNS YOU REPEAT IN YOUR LIFE. I'M HERE TO DIVE INTO THE PARTS OF YOUR LIFE THAT FEEL "STUCK."
LEARNING ABOUT YOUR PATTERNS AND LIMITING BELIEFS IS THE FIRST STEP IN MAKING LIFE CHOICES THAT FEEL AUTHENTIC TO YOU (INSTEAD OF MAKING DECISIONS TO PLEASE OTHERS OR BECAUSE YOU'RE AFRAID OF WHAT THEY'LL SAY).
THE PROCESS OF REBUILDING THE FOUNDATION OF A MORE AUTHENTIC LIFE ISN'T EASY, NOR DOES IT HAPPEN OVERNIGHT.I WILL WORK WITH YOU TO HELP YOU STAY ON TRACK WITH THE DECISIONS AND BOUNDARIES YOU SET WHEN YOU FEEL EMPOWERED SO YOU CAN UPHOLD THEM WHEN YOU DON'T.Â
BY COMBINING CONVERSATIONAL METHODS AND WRITTEN MEDIUMS WITH EMBODIMENT PRACTICES SUCH AS EFT, NLP, BREATHING TECHNIQUES, AND OTHER SOMATIC EXERCISES, YOU'LL START TO BUILD A REAL FOUNDATION OF SELF-TRUST, SELF-WORTH, SELF-LOVE, AND SELF-RESPECT.
THE BASIS OF MY COACHING IS TO ADDRESS THE GUILT AND SHAME THAT ARISE AS A RESULT OF THE BLACK SHEEP EXPERIENCE. AS YOU START TO LIVE MORE AUTHENTICALLY, THE GUILT AND SHAME WILL START TO TAKE OVER, WHICH IS WHEN YOU START TO DOUBT YOURSEF. COMBINING THE BODY, MIND, AND SOUL IN OUR COACHING SESSIONS ALLOWS YOU TO PURSUE YOUR HEALING IN A FOCUSED AND SUSTAINABLE WAY.  Â
testimonials
Nandhini
This experience is a safe space to come and be held no matter where you are with your spirituality journey and no matter what is going on in your life. Roshni held space for me in such an amazing way and I feel really grateful."
Kirti p.
[After working with Roshni], I'm able to connect with my intuition and deeper knowing. I feel more confident when it comes to making decisions for me, versus constantly feeling like I have to justify my decisions to others.
neelam p.
I felt like instead of dreaming and becoming my Highest Self, this program helped me see and create a relationship with that higher self that can't be unseen or uncreated. It's the bridge I've made contact with in the past and was inpsiring, but now I can feel that bridge under my feet.
M. Mutmainnah
Roshni is very attentive and compassionate. Roshni really understood why I was seeking validation as a body-led response and made me understand that I can make myself feel emotionally safe. Roshni made me feel empowered and I felt heard and safe.
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